Wow....I can't live with this any longer...my W came out and atacked me verbally about some bills she had known I couldn't pay the last few months. She wanted new windows in this pityfull house and an engagement ring...I don't use credit cards or anything close to a line of credit. So you do the math if I am spending over 1.5k for her benifit and I have my own bills to pay ..and only get paid right now 1 time a month...will I have money after CHristmas???????? OMG... So I told her I am going for a seperation/Divorce after she decided to have an affair this time last year.....then she has the BALLS to tell me I am the best thing she has ever had...in her life????????OMG OMG OMG....  So I am looking for somewhere else to live. Merry CHristmas... Jerry