Wow....I can't live with this any longer...my W came out and atacked me verbally about some bills she had known I couldn't pay the last few months. She wanted new windows in this pityfull house and an engagement ring...I don't use credit cards or anything close to a line of credit. So you do the math if I am spending over 1.5k for her benifit and I have my own bills to pay ..and only get paid right now 1 time a month...will I have money after CHristmas???????? OMG... So I told her I am going for a seperation/Divorce after she decided to have an affair this time last year.....then she has the BALLS to tell me I am the best thing she has ever had...in her life????????OMG OMG OMG.... So I am looking for somewhere else to live. Merry CHristmas... Jerry
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Jerry - it\'s one thing after another for you, I don\'t know how you\'ve coped. The last remark you quote from her sounded like the open door to air a lot of truths at last - did you use it? I\'m so sorry you\'re unhappy - please keep an update on how you are. Hugs to you.
Lonicera
dear jerry, i wouldn\'t walk, i run to get away from your wife. how much can you take? she is pulling you down in her crazy cycle. your kids are older, make a life for yourself and kids. you should be with someone who loves you and cares about you. as far as her wanting a ring...ha, she don\'t deserve anything. i feel so bad for you, i don\'t know what else to say. i wish you only happiness, let this new year bring it to you. love, ronna
Jerry my dear friend, your wife is one toke over the line! She is telling you you\'re the best thing that\'s ever happened to her but it sounds like she\'s using you for your paycheck and what YOU can give to HER. What\'s she giving back?
Does she know you\'re looking for another place to live? Will she be able to keep the payments up on the house or will you have to do that as well? Maybe the seperation will help her to see that she can\'t push you around any more.
Hugs and love,
Susan
I am so sorry (((((((((jerry))))))))) i havent been here for u. I have been so busy and such with neighbors here and there. i am going to call u on monday ok sweety too busy on the weekends and such
i love ya though and u are always in my prayers
do u have the money for u to get a place i am worried about ya do u have friends or family for support??? let me know hon text me or something
jan
(((((((((((jerry))))))))))
Sorry to hear about this.
I hate Christmas.
I have a miserable life also but we must go on.
Hope your New Year is better.
Get out of that relationship.
It\'s not worth it to put yourself threw it.
Life is short.
A
You know it isn\'t the worst thing to happen to me but ....merry christmas :)
Life is too short to be with someone who talks a good talk but dosen\'t follow through....taxi!
BTW! thank you everyone for your support! it means the world to me..... :) you all rock !
Hey Jerry. I am sorry you have to deal with crap like that. You deserve better, much better. I am glad you are finally sticking up for yourself. I wish I could come and whisk you away to a stress free life. I hope that 2009 bring you much better things in your life, I think you waited long enough and did everything possible to salvage and save this marriage. I hope you opened her eyes and I wish you only one thing.........happiness. If you ever need to talk. Lord knows you have had ears for me, and I will have ears and shoulders for you too. Hugs to you!!!!!!!!! I wish I could give you one in person.
She has not deserved you for a long time. Tell her to take her bills and shove them. Take care of you. Not her house, not her damn ring she doesnt deserve. TAKE CARE OF YOU AND I MEAN IT! Go to your kids if you need to. I know they love you and are there for you. I am here too. Do not let her get to you. You are the best thing that ever happened to her... and she has not appreciated it. Get away hon. Get away now. Love ya! XOXOXOX