Things have finally settled down for the time being, the funeral went very well and everyone thought it was a very fitting memorial to them. Now comes the fight for what is left, it has already started the brother-in-law and his son are voicing their anger about the will. They feel cheated out of money, the money was the father-in-laws to do with as he wished. They are constantly saying their mother wanted it another way. I asked them why are they not voicing opinions after he past away. They say they thought we were going to "take care of them"? wow such jerks. So the infighting has begun. Geez I had to guilt them to even come over to see my father-in -law over the last 2 years. They now talk of "honor" yeah right. Oh well it is what it isthe buzzards are circling the remains. My wife and I took care of him almost on a daily basis and never wanted anything for it, just quality of life for him. Family can be so stupid. Tha is my rant today :) Sorry Jerry