Things have finally settled down for the time being, the funeral went very well and everyone thought it was a very fitting memorial to them. Now comes the fight for what is left, it has already started the brother-in-law and his son are voicing their anger about the will. They feel cheated out of money, the money was the father-in-laws to do with as he wished. They are constantly saying their mother wanted it another way. I asked them why are they not voicing opinions after he past away. They say they thought we were going to "take care of them"? wow such jerks. So the infighting has begun. Geez I had to guilt them to even come over to see my father-in -law over the last 2 years. They now talk of "honor" yeah right. Oh well it is what it isthe buzzards are circling the remains. My wife and I took care of him almost on a daily basis and never wanted anything for it, just quality of life for him. Family can be so stupid. Tha is my rant today :) Sorry Jerry
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JERRY ... NO NEED TO APOLOGIZE ... THIS IS COMMON IN MOST FAMILIES ... I CALL THEM VULTURES ... BUZZARDS WAS A NICE WAY OF PUTTING IT ... MY AUNT PASSED AWAY, AND VOICED THAT SHE WANTED ME TO HAVE SOME OF HER THINGS, BEFORE, AS SHE PUT IT \"THEY PICK MY BONES, LIKE VULTURES\" OF COURSE, MY COUSIN DIDN\'T HONOR HER WISHES, I NEVER ASKED, I JUST WANTED MY AUNT .. NOT HER THINGS ... PEOPLE ARE SO SHALLOW, AND PETTY ... TRY NOT TO LET THIS BOTHER YOU, YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART YOU DID THE RIGHT THING,BY YOUR FATHER-IN-LAW, SO JUST LET IT GO, AND CHALK IT UP TO IGNORANCE .... THANK YOU AGAIN FOR THE SUPPORT YOU GAVE TO ME, FOR JO\'VONNE ... SHE IS STILL HERE WITH ME, A MIRACLE IN ITSELF, AND THINGS ARE PROGRESSING SLOWLY, BUT AT LEAST THEY\'RE PROGRESSING .... I WILL NEVER FORGET HOW YOU EXTENDED YOURSELF TO ME, AND I WILL FOREVER BE GRATEFUL FOR THAT !!! HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND !! AND PRAYERS AND LOVE GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY !!! TAKE CARE, YOUR FRIEND MARIE