Things have calmed down considerably, I have been on an antidepressant and my mind isn’t going on and on about things any more. I confronted the OW a few weeks ago and feel safer about the close proximity of my wife and the OW at their work place. My wife has put in for a transfer to another store. This is something I wanted from the start, she had to come to the point to where she can’t stand being there with the OW any more. The only thing that is weird is that my wife has begun to get very clingy with me. She wants to be with me all the time, while I love to spend time with her she has gotten to the point of smothering me. I get the feeling that she can’t trust herself with out me being there, I hope it is because she has come out of this mess and has found she really loves me and wants to be with me as much as possible to make up for the time she was having the affair. Like I have said before only time will tell.