UGH

This sight is really beginning to make me feel like a freak. I've spent most of my life trying to hide who I am. I've tried to be what I thought people wanted me to be.
1. I'm bisexual and happy with it. Just wish I could meet a woman to explore this side of myself. 
2. I like older men. Like 16 or more years older.
3. The thought of being submissive to an older man or couple really turns me on. I want to explore this also. I'm sure this doesn't mean I'm broken and need to be fixed.
4. I'm obsessed with Criminal Minds, Law and Order: SVU and other crime dramas. They make me feel like there might be police and others that actually care about victims.
5. I have a crush on Mandy Patinkin and Joe Mantegna. I've even written them letters to tell them how much their characters mean to me.
 
I like who I am, even if sometimes I'm not sure who that is. If the people here think I'm a freak and want to ignore my posts, that's their loss.

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donnawanda
donnawanda

I don\'t see you getting a lot of negative feedback!

Wanting to be submissive is pretty common and there is a BDSM group on here that you could join.

Liking older men is also pretty common.

I heard from a young bisexual woman that lesbians are really hostile to bisexuals. Why? They\'re probably afraid (maybe rightly?) that a bisexual woman will leave them for a man.

What\'s even harder is being polyamory - not wanting to be in a monogamous relationship with one person. I have one other friend on this site who is polyamorous and she\'s had problems too - not with the site, with her partners.

I am sure no one has any issues with your taste in TV or actors. You have a lot of company on that one!