My hubby is being an ass, yelling at me about working more, I work 3 days at hosp. and one day drawing blood in peoples homes, which adds up to one day at hosp., so im working 4 days! We are not speaking right now, I slept in spare room, which is fine, I sleep better anyway!I dont know if I should threaten that we go to therapy or what? Hes hurting(back) and I thought he could sypathize with what Im going through, guess not. I try to baby him when he's hurting, he doesnt ever ask how Iam. Sooo sick of life. Havent scheuled my surgery, cant when we're fighting.
Replies
I think you should go to counseling, you guys have been through worse, I think he just doesn\'t know how to react to your issues and anger is the easiest thing to do, my hubby is the same way you know?
Your health should have priority over his need to fight. Men get angry when they\'re scared. Your working enough to be in that kind of pain. Schedule the surgery and recuperate with your family. Then come home and schedule some family therapy. It does help, been there. Also, quit paying bills except to the gov. Let him take over the rest.