Upset
Dear Journal,
My children and their spouses went with me to the cemetery today. I was happy that they really like the headstone. We ran into a family and I was upset about his comments, he goes " Oh if they are dead they are dead" I said to him that he was so precious to me and I have to respect his body I know his soul is now in heaven but his body is buried in the cemetery. I told my children that no one is going to discourage me to come visit their dad in the cemetery. This is my life and I can do what I want. It really upsets me when they are trying to discourage me. At this time I can grieve until it heals. I Love You Hon and I miss you so much and I know you are not coming back with me physically but spiritually you are with me until I join you in heaven. Talk to you again next time
My children and their spouses went with me to the cemetery today. I was happy that they really like the headstone. We ran into a family and I was upset about his comments, he goes " Oh if they are dead they are dead" I said to him that he was so precious to me and I have to respect his body I know his soul is now in heaven but his body is buried in the cemetery. I told my children that no one is going to discourage me to come visit their dad in the cemetery. This is my life and I can do what I want. It really upsets me when they are trying to discourage me. At this time I can grieve until it heals. I Love You Hon and I miss you so much and I know you are not coming back with me physically but spiritually you are with me until I join you in heaven. Talk to you again next time
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Oh Tiger, why do people have to be so cruel. And what the hell was he doing in the cemetary if not morning someone that has passed? I have my husbands ashes at home with me and it is comforting.. I believe we will be reunited when my time comes but I also want to believe his spirit is with me and my kids and my grands. To think otherwise would be unbelievable. Hugs and Love to you, Michele
Dear Tiger,
I am sorry there are people like this around, who have Absolutely No Clue of how hurtful their words are...unfortunately, I deal with them too...
Take peace my friend, in the love, honour and respect you have for your precious beloved husband....May God give you His peace and comfort.
Warm hugs..... To You and your family...
Sandra
My in- laws are the cruel people in my life. They don\'t even honor my husband. I\'m sorry you had to deal with that. Keep on doing what\'s in your heart and don\'t left anyone tell you different
thank you so much everyone your respond is so comforting