I really dislike this goal most.  Why is it that they gave us ways to set goals, but did not give us ways to delete them?  Hey, Doug, I think you missed one here! No matter what I do, it is highly unlikely that I will ever learn to like myself.  I have not given up, but this will be a long uphill battle.  I do not like the fact that I was sexually abused during my lifetime.  Whether it was my fault or not, has little to do with it.  I despise the people who hurt me, leaving scars that will stay within me forever.  I also do not like the fact that I have a physical disability.  It was not my fault, but I must still pay for it day to day, and week to week, by a society that is very judgmental without knowing all the facts.  Very few people give those of us who are disabled much more than a second glance.  We are quite often considered as second or third class citizens.  I sincerely hope that I never inflict cruelty upon others, much like that which some people have inflicted upon me just because I am different than they are.