After posting what this patricwhatever his name is and sending messages out, including to Doug, I have been assured and thanked, Doug, you are a sweetheart for responding so quickly!, (not a pick up line here!!), that patric whatever his name was has been banned form this site. It really bothers me that we come on DS to get and seek help and support and people like that prey on us thinking we are weak. It is our strength, as a unit, that helps weed out people like this. Match.com is just one of many ways for people like him to meet other people. Because we do have problems we need to share with each other does not mean we have to become victims of people like this. I am a victim no more. I am a survivor. We all are. We may have our bad days, and mine have been many as of late, as well as most of us, we need no more lightning and thunder. Good luck to those who think they can pick us out as easy prey. We are not easy prey. We can take a stand against this sort of thing on DS because that is not what we are about. God Bless to all of yall who do support and sincerly need support and God Bless the ones who are predators. One day, hopefully, they will meet my ex and be beaten down and need a site such as this for support. So, with this being said, Patric and whoever else is out there looking for desparate, Indiana is where you want to be. My ex is all over Indiana. Just look for the person most likely to play and BELIEVE he is God... I hope you all meet and will be as equally happy with each other as you deserve.