He is doing it again. The pattern is obvious. He did this last time when it was getting close to deployment again. He gets really moody and depressed and pushes me away. i'm trying to figure out a way to break the cycle. I'm not gonna let him push me away again this time. I will let Dr. Miyake know about this, maybe he can help us.God, I pray they do not send him to Iraq again. I hope they realize he is no good in Iraq and instead let him stay and get ready to get out of the military. He needs to start that transition now because it is a lot harder going back to civilian than it is the other way. But they don't care and just want to play games with him. God please help us. Please open the right doors for him so that he may stay on island and do what he needs to do. please help his chain of command to make the right decision for him. ...please! I'm so depressed I don't want to eat.