He is doing it again. The pattern is obvious. He did this last time when it was getting close to deployment again. He gets really moody and depressed and pushes me away. i'm trying to figure out a way to break the cycle. I'm not gonna let him push me away again this time. I will let Dr. Miyake know about this, maybe he can help us.God, I pray they do not send him to Iraq again. I hope they realize he is no good in Iraq and instead let him stay and get ready to get out of the military. He needs to start that transition now because it is a lot harder going back to civilian than it is the other way. But they don't care and just want to play games with him. God please help us. Please open the right doors for him so that he may stay on island and do what he needs to do. please help his chain of command to make the right decision for him. ...please! I'm so depressed I don't want to eat.
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awwww, i hope he stays and that his chain of command does recognize this..and try to eat something later girl!
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Ha sweetie, I will pray for you both OK, This is a very hard time for all of you, this day is the day for the prayers to be heard, the Lord is always faithful, he hears us all. Please, find the time to eat, you need to take care of your self, to care for others, even if you go get some ForSure drinks, it helps me when I cant seem to eat, but he needs you, dont forget! Even though he wont talk--(thats a guy thing anyways)--he fills so many things going on in his head he might not know what to say, this is what I learned form my hubby! Just know that he also might not want you to worry so- much yourself, not sure, but my experience is that. So please keep praying and God has great plans for us all, \"Lord, please bless this family, let the commanders hear you, we ask you to let him stay home and work for you where he is. Give strength for this family come closer and find the words for each other, give bluesun the strength to eat. Lord take the stress\'s from them at this time.\" Amen! So bluesun this is your hug for the day, blessings sissy45
Oh, honey - what a terrible thing for you. This is why I do not like the military: because of what it does to people. I wish I had some really killer advice to offer; all I can say is that you really do need to eat...just some fruit & nuts if you are not in the mood to bother with fixing anything. Walnuts have been shown to help alleviate depression and are good for diabetics; cherries for arthritis; spinach and anything dark & leafy for B-12 and vitamin A; ya got to eat. I\'ll pray for your situation to improve, just hang in there...things WILL get better. Love, Marlena
I wish I could give you a hugh hug and take all your pain away. I can see how much you love Matthew, but things have not been right in this relationship, and you know it. Talking to a counselor would be a great idea. I had a horrible marriage for 32 years, but I chose to be a victim, and now that it\'s been over for 6 years, I can see the damage it has done to me and the road to recovery I am on. It\'s a long process.
I don\'t want this for you, and I know you don\'t want this for you either.
I wish I had advice and wisdom, but I don\'t. I wish I could take away your pain, but I can\'t. But I can love and pray for you. You are too sweet to put up with moody men who maybe need to grow up.
God I am so sorry for you both! That just sucks =( You are in my prayers!!