Well Saturday night was a complete disaster! I don't know where to start.They all decided to go to this Thai restaurant up at the north shore which is an hr drive. Sonnie made reservations for 6:30 pm. Sonnie left like an hr early just to make sure nothing bad would happen. Matthew and I left early but not THAT early, we wanted to watch the sun set up there. When it got close to 6:30, Sonnie called and told me that they were setting up the table. I told him to sit there and hold it till the rest of us got there. He also told me his date is running late. We got there by 7. Sonnie was sitting outside, so I asked him what happened. He told me that we lost the reservation!! He said not to worry we will be seated next. I flipped out on him and asked him why he didn't sit there with mom and hold it??!! He was like "you told me that? when?" I can't believe it! So we waited and waited and I was sooo hungry my blood sugar was falling. I asked the waitress when we can get seated, she was like another 40 mins. ...40 mins??!! WTF? I told sonnie and them I'm not waiting and am going to a restaurant 1 block down called Pizza Bob's. I got there and was immediately seated. Sonnie, mom, and his dates decided to stay there and wait. Whatever... the goal was for me to buy everyone dinner not to sit and wait for hrs and then eat separately. So that was a disaster!! When Matt and I got home, we decided to get drunk. So I started doing shots of tequila and chased it with a tequila sunrise. We watched movies and goofed off the rest of the night till we fell asleep. Sunday, we ran some errands and then went to the beach which was awesome! The waves were small but had a good long push so they would push us all they way up the beach and back down! Was really fun! Matthew looked like a little kid in a candy store! He couldn't stop giggling every time a wave swooshed him away. What a stress reliever! Afterwards, we ate dinner and popped in a few movies and then had our little Sunday Bible study. TODAY...I went to see my new PCM. I like her she's pretty smart. She looked over all my meds, radiology, and lab works. She told me that according to the kidney scans that were done, it shows plenty scarring and signs of chronic inflamation. It also showed much more things that I can't remember or can't pronounce. Next time I see her I will ask for a copy of it. Anyway, so she goes on to tell me that she referring me to nephrology, cuz urology won't help. She also told me that there was a stone, and apperantly I passed it. Then she tells tell me that she wants me tested for Lupus. I asked her what that's got to do with anything, and she said Lupus has a tendency to cause chronic inflamation in the kidney and other kidney problems. I'm like oh that's just fuckin great!! Now what?!! So i'm hoping it is NOT lupus and there may be a simpler issue like I gotta take a certain supplement or eat more of whatever food. I'd much rather go that rout. So who ever reads this, please pray for me that it's something simple and not lupus!! Ugh...