AAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!! I just found out that both the VA and Tripler hospital can't find the referral I was supposed to have to see Urology!! So I called my GP and left a message about it!!! Now I have to wait AGAIN! What else can go wrong!!??? GGGRRRRR!!!!!Now I just got a call from my good buddy, Earl, one of his closest friends, Fred, that I've hung with in California, his brother, Matt, just died!! He's in his 30s!! Actually now that we are talking about it, I remember Matt. He was the one that took in a sick kitten and nursed it back to health. I remember that cat being a big anergetic hyper cat, and that's when Matt told me how the cat was when it was a kitten. This was back in 2002, when Earl and I took a trip to California to hang out with his old college buddies for several days and then head to Vegas to party. My mom's best friend just died this past week, her other best friend, Maria, had a second husband, "Big Ed", that past away a month ago. I miss him already, I grew up aound him and his WW II stories. What else will go wrong?? Who else will die???? or wreck??? My older bro wrecked his Motr cycle yesterday and broke his collar bone, my best friend Chuck, fell asleep at the whell 2 nights ago and crashed going 70!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! NO MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

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I am so sorry you are having such stress in your life. When I get a lot of high stress coming at me I need to due extra relaxation techniques. I understand what you are going through with the VA. My husband uses the VA, because of his 100% disability. We have learned to just expect things like that. We are very thankful he has free care with them though. One day at a time. :) Hugs - By the way, thanks for commenting on my journal.
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I had a professor in college who said that if we chose to think about all the things that could happen to us in a given day, we would never leave the house. Don\'t wonder who is next, just try to enjoy the people you have in your life and live each moment with them to the fullest. Hugs.