So, 34 days down, seems like 340.  Struggling some still but so far, still smoke free and tickled about it!   My aunt and cousin came Thursday and left Sunday.  It ended badly.  I can't stand when I'm addressing my aunt, for my cousin to interrupt and talk FOR my aunt, and I had asked her nicely a few times earlier in the visit, but she could not contain herself for long, yelled her opinion out in the lobby of the independent living center, and stomped out to the car, leaving my aunt and myself looking at each other and shaking our heads.  BTW, my cousin is a very self-absorbed, childish, dependent 58 year old.  We continued to visit a few more minutes, then I walked her to the car in the rain (Vickie had grabbed up my aunt's jacket and cane when she made her exit).  Drove directly to Fred's, bought TONS of birdseed, a new color book (outlines of flowers and gardens) that came with its own set of colored pencils, and various essentials.  Passed up the bubbles, although they were on sale (I still have plenty)!  Sunday, ate lunch at my sisters, homemade spaghetti, and helped her un-decorate (long story) then went for a walk in the woods for several hours.  VERY nice, although muddy in places.  Feel somewhat cheated out of a full weekend, but I did a good job of making up for time!  Hopefully this weekend will be just for me and Precious.  I need that!  This goal thing is throwing me off.  It says I have 31 days, and I swear I have 34!