Family
So, I had an aunt of mine tell my uncle I have added on Facebook once for me to call her, that she wants to hear from me. Well.. not only do I have a phobia of talking on the phone to random people, but this is also someone who judged me when I first transitioned. So do I wanna risk judgment? No. She should have thought about how her judgment would have impacted me later in life before she judged me. Think about that maybe judgment would push me away when she wants to hear from me.
Okay, that was just a little bit of venting because I had that come to mind just now. Enjoy your holiday season.
Okay, that was just a little bit of venting because I had that come to mind just now. Enjoy your holiday season.
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I understand how you feel, and if I were in your situation I would feel the same. But at the same time, with Christmas coming in only a few days, I would allow the Christmas spirit to override the anger I feel for someone who judged me. I guess you can also call this turning the other cheek. For all you know, the Christmas spirit has got her feeling sorry for what she said, and she wants to talk to you to apologize. I say give her a chance, find out what she wants. And if I was right, your going to thank me. And if I am wrong, then what have you really lost?
Ashley
This happened at some point other than the Christmas season. Like sometime last year or some shit? I forget when I just know it wasn\'t during Christmas. I am not angry at her, I just have nothing to say to her.