Give it time. Maybe trust has not been earned yet. Trust should never be forced. If someone has hurt you badly, it may be and should be a long time until he deserves your trust again. forgiveness comess with acceptance. accepting , completely accepting this level of betrayal can take a long time...2 or 3 years. Allow your soul to heal at it\'s own pace. You are willing to forgive and trust, now just add time and your betrayer\'s efforts.
It\'s so hard to trust and forgive. The trusting is for both of you to work on, don\'t take that on yourself... he needs to give you reason to trust him and the forgiveness, well, that is a gift to yourself. I struggle with that daily and as soon as I figure it out, I\'ll let you know how. We can do it sweetie.
((HUGS)) You can do it! I have full faith in you. You\'re such a loving and caring soul, You never deserved to be hurt like that.. but you can finish out this goal!! I know it! Here if you need me!
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little is better than none. it takes time. sometimes a very long time. but it will get there... love and hugs, meg
Give it time. Maybe trust has not been earned yet. Trust should never be forced. If someone has hurt you badly, it may be and should be a long time until he deserves your trust again. forgiveness comess with acceptance. accepting , completely accepting this level of betrayal can take a long time...2 or 3 years. Allow your soul to heal at it\'s own pace. You are willing to forgive and trust, now just add time and your betrayer\'s efforts.
It\'s so hard to trust and forgive. The trusting is for both of you to work on, don\'t take that on yourself... he needs to give you reason to trust him and the forgiveness, well, that is a gift to yourself. I struggle with that daily and as soon as I figure it out, I\'ll let you know how. We can do it sweetie.
(((((HUGS)))))
((HUGS)) You can do it! I have full faith in you. You\'re such a loving and caring soul, You never deserved to be hurt like that.. but you can finish out this goal!! I know it! Here if you need me!