"I'm trying to stop!" More like trying to hide it better...I hear this all the time, and I am so tired of hearing it. I don't want to be hurt anymore, so I've left. He still doesn't get it. He thinks I need to apologize to HIM!!! I did nothing wrong, I just responded to what he did to me. I'm tired of it. All he does is lie, yell, hit, and call me names. I deserve better. He'll never look at what he's doing wrong, he'll just always blame me. I have enough to worry about- I don't need his crap.
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Yes, you do deserve better. You did nothing wrong. You are doing what you need to do for yourself and your son. :)
They do always blame us. That is the way they justify the abuse to us and to themselves. Unfortunatly he may never understand what he has really done to you. I finally gave up trying to justify my leaving to my stbx. He will never understand the damage he has done to me.
You are right you do not need his crap. Are you in a safe place?
you are strong, you will survive, and we will be here every step of the way for you. always....trust your gut & follow your brain. you know what\'s right. you have already done the hardest part. if you get weak or scared, look at jonathan and remember what a special child you have to love and protect. love ya OSM!
Melinda, you deserve much better! big comforting hugs! :)
You deserve safety, happiness, and knowing, that you are appreciated. i support you 100% Melinda. i love you lots, my soulfriend. i will always support you. :)
You are doing great...keep going.
Please be safe melinda. Take your safety and your sons safety seriously and do not under estimate what a angery man might do.
Thank you for finally taking everyone\'s advice!!