Will this day NEVER end??? Now he's complaining that he is hungry. He refused to give me money to go grocery shopping today, so we don't have anything I can make for dinner. So, he wants me to go to KFC and pick up a bucket of chicken. The problem is that I am afraid to go and get dinner, and then have him yell at me for messing up somehow. I never order from KFC, so I probably won't get it right. That means that I will get yelled at again, and at this point, I will probably get beat up again tonight because he is so on edge and angry with me today. What do I do? Do I go because he is getting mad because he is hungry and risk making a mistake? Or, should I just not go, hide in the basement again, and pray that he decides he doesn't want KFC for dinner? I am so afraid to make a decision. It's that all too familiar 'walking on eggshells' thing again. What should I do???
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I suggest you head off to KFC and go to a friend\'s, parent, or shelter. Somewhere he can\'t find you. Don\'t plan to go pick up things until he is at work and take a sheriff escort. Honey, it\'s getting out of hand and easier for him. You have got to decide to live. You need to for Jonathon. For yourself. And get a restraining order first thing in the morning. If you go to a women\'s shelter they will usually get you the order for free. Go! Go NOW! Love, Bren
I agree with Mom.
I have to agree with Mom...make sure when you leave you take that precious little man with you.
I have to agree with Mom too. Once you are out though there is no going back. You must make a clean break for you and your children. Luv ya
getting out would be a very good thing. Easier said than done though. I know.
you need to get away from him. what if he hurts you or the kids and or kills you? that would be horrible. get away my friend. you can do it
I have to say that I agree with the other posters here. Honey, if you are that scared then you really need to leave. I understand your reasons for not wanting to, but you and Jonathan (and Evil Bob too) deserve to be safe and not live in fear all the time. Your lives are more important. I\'m so worried about you.