From excellent to horrible, all with the click of a mouse. NormLNorma had posted the most terrible thing on the sex/pornography addiction forum. This person cut me down, hurt me so bad. What's the point of going to a group for something you know nothing about and making rude remarks? That hurt. Well, I went off. I normally control myself so that I do not hurt other people, but this time I had had enough.
Am I wrong for yelling at them like that? Am I wrong for defending myself and all of the wonderful people in that group? Everyone has been so good to me and so supportive of me. I just can't stand there and let someone as cruel as this put them and myself down.
Am I wrong for yelling at them like that? Am I wrong for defending myself and all of the wonderful people in that group? Everyone has been so good to me and so supportive of me. I just can't stand there and let someone as cruel as this put them and myself down.
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no gurl you are not wrong for defending what you feel is worth defending. See you have inner strength sometimes you have to pull it from a different place inside to find it but it is there....cheryl
I always am defensive if it\'s something I believe it, and if someone hurts me, it upsets me to where I say things back. I just have an odd way of doing it, I guess because my newly x-step-mom. Went off crying and screaming at my dad. I believe in the phrase I call kill with kindness, be nice to someone who dislikes you always makes them wonder what you are up to, also always makes you look likt the better person. Especially if they go off or get rude, I act completely shocked by their reaction like they have the problem not me... while others stare. Or my other one is when someone attacks me I say flat out \"he who is without sin shall cast the first stone. So does his mean you are without sin, can you cast stones, you\'ve never sinned in your whole life???\" That dumb founds them. Because they don\'t know what to say back. I know people laugh at my \"war tactics\" but I feel defending myself is important, and if I can mess with their head while doing it to confuse them a bit or knock them off their pedistal then I use it. And if it works on that person I remember and keep using it against them. That should make ya smile today just hearing my tactics, and give you a laugh but it works for me. And gives me a bit of entertainment for the day...