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My husband and I have been doing ALOT of talking lately. He is still bringing up counseling for us individually, and together as a couple. He also wants to get into an anger management group! I hope this works, but then I don't know that I can trust him not to look at porn, and not to hit me. I feel so confused. I know everyone has been telling me to leave, and I feel like I am letting everyone else down. But, I thought I was ready to leave, and I just can't let go of him. I don't know... It's so frustrating! I just hope and pray that he sticks with this and that it works.
My husband and I have been doing ALOT of talking lately. He is still bringing up counseling for us individually, and together as a couple. He also wants to get into an anger management group! I hope this works, but then I don't know that I can trust him not to look at porn, and not to hit me. I feel so confused. I know everyone has been telling me to leave, and I feel like I am letting everyone else down. But, I thought I was ready to leave, and I just can't let go of him. I don't know... It's so frustrating! I just hope and pray that he sticks with this and that it works.
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You are NOT letting anybody down!!!! We just know how you feel because we have been there. Sometimes it\'s easier to go into denial. I do think it\'s GREAT that he wants to seek counseling, this is a MAJOR step because he recognizes that he has a problem. My abuser never wanted to go to counseling with me because he insisted that I was the problem, not him. So, PLEASE go to therapy, alone and with him.
Now that you have time...plan an escape when times get rough again, they might not but Have a \"back up plan\". Start GETTING A JOB!!!!Go to school, money is important to be free.