YEA!!! I am having a great day! You wont believe what my hubby did today!!!!I cant believe it!I Know I have complained a lot about my hubby lately, he has been so cold and uncaring. I really was beginning to feel like this disease had stole my once happy marriage from me and I was totally heartbroken! Well, today after my test I called home to tell him how great I did on my test and he said..whatever, I can't talk now and then hung up! I was furious! What happened to the man I married! Is it because I am starting to look like shreks wife? I had all this in my head then later I got up the nerve to call him back and I said .." listen, I call home to share my good news and instead of being proud of me and supporting me you just give me the brush off!...I am proud of myself regardless of how you feel and I am furious for how little you care about me lately!" then I just hung up the phone. So tonight- I get home and he is gone to wrestling practice with the boys. I notice all the lights in the house are on so I call him..."did you leave the lights on or is there a burglar? he says ..oh yea, I forgot. Im like ...whatever and still being angry, I hang up on him and proceed to the house. When I walk in there is a dozen roses and a ruby diamond ring on the table! I dropped to my knees and cry! WHen I finally get it together I began to hunt for the ever elusive cordless phone(we have 4!) I am screaming to myself at this point "where is the *&^% phone! I wanted to call him and tell him how much I love him but the phone is nowhere to be found! Finally I notice my bedroom light is on and I go up to see if the phone is there......On the bed is ANOTHER DOZEN ROSES AND ANOTHER DIAMOND AND RUBY RING!!!!!!! and beside them are all of the phones lined up! He knew I would be looking for a phone which would then lead me to the second surprise! By now I am shrouded with guilt so I call him crying...when I called him that morning to tell him about my test he was buying the ring which is why he couldnt talk. My birthday was last weekend and my 18th wedding anniversary is sunday so he covered them both in one night! I now realize that he is also having a hard time with my disease and even though he doesn't always show it, he loves me chubby, bug eyed an all! I have some serious kissing up to do so off I go.....oh yea I am posting pics of the rings if you want to see ,,,
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That\'s a GREAT Day! How wonderful! Happy Anniversay. What a wonderful guy. Sometimes we forget that our illness doesn\'t only get to \'us\'. I\'m sooooo happy for you!
Ohhhhh I am so happy for you. The rings are gorgeous. Your a lucky girl. Men ehhh. Sometimes they, like us, need to be reminded just how strong yet fragile love can be.
I am so happy for you. My husband read your post. He said he knows how your husband feels. It\'s part not knowing what to do or say ,not understanding the mood swings. My husband said he suffers with me but can\'t make me feel better. Yours did a really good job.