Well.. here's my first entry on here. :P I'm sorta in a bad mood right now. Me and Timmy (the husband) were in walmart and for some reason i was getting really overwhelmed by the amount of people in there. I started feeling like they were all looking at me and i started sorta feeling like i was freaking out. Here's what really bothered me... I told Timmy that my nerves were messed up... and he didnt say a word. I got sorta aggitated and he said he didnt say anything because he didn't know what to say. He doesn't seem to understand that when i tell him stuff like this, i need him to be there for me... not just say the "right thing." I'm starting to wonder lately if i made a mistake marrying him. He doesn't seem to understand me. oh.. on top of all this. Walmart apparently messed my car up.... Don't ever take your car there for an oil change!
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explain how you feel in words that may help Tim understand. Don\'t assume you two should not be there, this seems like comunication problem. Instead of saying nearves are messed up, not too many would know what to say, state the facts I am feeling like there are too many people here can we go outside and take a break?
Depending how you say things when upset or getting frustrated it may be better to say what is happening directly and as a matter of fact so your husband can respond quickly in a mannor that will eleaviate the problem and help you.
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Don\'t assume you two should not be together
too msny would not know what to say
I let timmy read this journal.. and we talked about it... so i think things are better now. Thanks Emjaykay :)