Oh my goodness. With everyone praying for me, I don't understand how one can keep getting worse. However, my luck has gone to the dogs and is getting worse. The chiro. said that I need a bone density test done. He said that he hasn't seen someone with such a bad back from the xrays for a person my age. Then he said that I am hypersensitive. He said that I probably have fibromyalgia (chronic back and hip pain). Finally a diagnosis. However, my husband said that he was going to divorce me because I was sick all the time. How could he leave me know? Why is this happening to me? I need to find courage and strength to be strong? A wonderful therapist helped me a lot last night. I gave her a hug goodbye last night. She grabbed my cheeks as tears were streaming down my face and she said that I would get better because I deserved it. It reminded me of my friend that died. Daughter's uncle that was shot in Illinois will be okay. He was shot in the shoulder. Daughter is sick with throat problem that is worse then strep throat. Husband is a mess. He needs to see a therapist but won't get the help that he needs. I am making him go to marriage therapy with me.
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i am so sorry to ehar this grl and ure deff in our prayers
i saw u in the peoples page and thought id send ya a hugg but then read this and wanted to let ya knw ure not alone hun
a lot of partners leave their spouse cause they take the pain anymore when they need to stik around and sacrifice but they cnt see past the pain
its hard for them to understand cause all they see is their partner in pain and always complainin and always needy and some peeps cnt take that but knw u are luvd and i hope everything gets worked out and ure rite at least ya have a diagnoses hun
thats a start ya knw :) theres always an upside and knw that God dsnt give us more than we ourselves can handle so i have faith u can and will make it thru this grl :) stay strong and never give up :)
I\'m glad to hear from you again, you had me worried. I REALLY believe that you could heal easier if your husband were to get some kind of treatment. I\'m glad you got in to see the therapist because you do deserve to feel better!....I hope that the marriage counseling helps, it might be a long and difficult journey but it will be worth all the work. Hang in there.....things will not stay bad forever. Just keep telling yourself how good this will all feel when you are recovered and in control of your life again. Hugs, Robin
Your therapist is right. You do deserve it. I\'m so sorry thigs just keep getting worse. But, like your therapist, I believe it will get better for you. Keep the faith. Love and hugs, Vicki