So it's a been a little over a week since I poured my heart out to my wife, telling her that I am not 100% perent ready for another child becasue I have still have trust and emotional issues. Since then things have been touch and go between us, she feels for me but she is withdrawn at the same time becasue she feels like she is doing all she can to try to show me that she wants to be with me and that I can trust her. Why I still have these feelings of hurt and insecurity I don't know. I am in a constant mental battle with myself am I fool for staying or am I ruining the best thing I ever had because I'm not getting over her lying and cheating so easily. Love is tough.In other news, I've lost 80lbs since Oct 10th! Only 45 lbs more to go to reach my target weight of 210lbs! Hopefully by March or April I will be there, we'll see.
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It is hard to trust again once that bond as been broken, whats to say that she wont find another man again. I feel like the pessimistic one, but records show that cheating rarely happens just once
I am going through a simular situation. I know that everything will work itself out. You are also getting very close to your goal. You have come so far. Just a little more to go. You can do it.
Keda