3rd period

Feeling down today... 
My period came yesterday :( ii have all sorts of emotions .. feeling a little numb
I have only started to track my periods and when possible ovulation may occur,,, with this pattern is looks like fertile days could be October 27-1 or 2nd How accurate has it been for anyone doing this.., should I try using ovulation sticks? Temperature? Also..... My husband is supposed to leave on a. Business trip nov 1-5..... Of course all emotional and my period came I was upset... But know it's not his fault. He offered to stay home... As much as I want him to I don't want to take the opportunity away from him. Has anyone been in this situation? I mean there is no gaur tee that it will happen during the days before or the days while he is gone 

I an going going to try getting back into an exercise routine today... Hoping that will help me have some more positive thoughts :) I have some back issues and they have started up again since not exercising since the miscarriage about 3 months ago... I know my body needs to be in better shape to have a baby and enjoy the experience :) so going to try to focus my mind on creating a healthier me as we keep trying.

also, still working on taking timelines out of my head..l that I should be having kids by a certain age, etc.. easier said than done 

i was was talking with my husband last night that I want to be excited to try and not terrified.. It is an exciting time and I don't want to take that away from my next baby. 


Thanks for listening S

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awidyanata
awidyanata

Dear S,

You are the only person that I feel connected to since we had the miscarried on the same month and still trying ;)

Last month, I checked with my doctor and she said it is okay to try again. So I am going to try soon.

I really wish that I live nearby and give you a big hug.

Always think positive. My period cycle is not consistent. My doctor printed out ovulation chart so every morning I measure my temperature. I also used the ovulation kit. It really helps. It is more accurate if you do it in the morning.

I do a little bit of jogging in the evening after school hours. Jogging and listening to the music really help to release some stress.

Take care, my dear. Keep me update.
Mapowell411
Mapowell411

I am sorry you have having a hard time:( This whole process is so trying, I never imagined it would be this stressful. I think you have the right outlook though, we all feel down at times and get overwhelmed. I thought I would be so happy when I got pregnant again, and while I am thrilled it\'s just a different kind of stress than when we were trying...I am always thinking it will happen again, and then getting mad at myself for thinking that way...its a vicious cycle. It is so good you have a very supportive husband:) No matter what I always just try to picture the future with a baby/child. That seems to help, whenever it may be! Thinking of you, Melody.