It is Thursday around 10:0pm. My date on Tuesday went fine. My fever went down and I was able to get ready. It is fatiquing to do that. I have to get a 3 to 4 hour start and take breaks of rest in between. I did dress to impress. We had dinner and good conversation. He has a New York accent and I was not use to hearing it. It seems like we have a good deal in common. However, I can say their were really no sparks. I will go on a second date and see maybe it takes some time. I do have some concerns as he wants to have second date at his house watching movies. I really don't know him that well and feel uncomfortable with the idea. He feels that we been communicating for 4 months now. But the truth is we haven't. He sent short email messages and a few short phone calls. That isn't what I call communication. He walk me to my car and we hug and he gave me a quick kiss on the lips.   He called tonight to say hello and mentioned he had a good time. He said something though that could be a problem. It is a major part of my life and it seems like we don't see eye-to-eye on this.  I will go on the second date, if it isn't in his home. If he doesn't agree... well I guess I won't date him again.