I just found out something at dinner that I don't know if it should bother me or not but my 18 year old stepson and my sixteen year old stepdaughter seem to be planning a spring break trip to San Diego (we live in the Las Vegas area) with my stepson's buddy across the street and his sister which is a friend of my stepdaughter. Other friends may go too. My stepson wants his girlfriend to go too, but her parents will probably say no which I totally agree with. It would be three days which I know isn't a big deal but it bothers me that they just decide they are planning these things with friends and we are just supposed to be okay with it. Maybe I am just letting it bother me for no good reason. I don't know.