Yesterday was pretty horrible. I went to work for the first time in 2 1/2 weeks. I had to, I had to close the books for year end, I did my best, but my best is really slow these days. I use to be such a multi-tasker. I just can't seem to focus or consentrate on the things in front of me. My best friend at work helped me out with some personal paper work that I just could not deal with. One more time I have to explain what has happened to a stranger that doesn't give a flying fuck about me just makes me want to scream. I couldn't even get them to stop deducing money from my check for his medical insurance. I mean what the fuck, he is dead, the company sent flowers to the service. The girl on the other end of the phone is telling me she needs a death certificate other wise I had to wait to open enrollment next year in November. What the hell is wrong with people. He is dead, he doesn't need medical insurance. What is so hard to undertsand about that. They want a death certificate, I don't even have one. I am told it will take up to 8 weeks. I told her fine, it will cost you $12.00 plus $50.00 an hour that I waste my time with you on the phone.Why does everyone have to make things so difficult when someone passes??? I'm not looking for smpathy here just take care of it and leave me alone. Anyway I put in almost a full 8 hours of work and took the early commuter bus home. I was worried about my dogs, they are not use to being home by themseles all day. Right now they are the only thing keeping me going I am having a problem with my husbands 401. The damned people won't call me back. I told them the same thing, he is dead and I am the benificeray and I need to withdraw some of the money for hardship reasons. My husband after not working for almost 4 years really left me in debt. I just want to get it all cleared up so I can start from fresh again and not have money woriies over my head. I have called them 4 times, still not one fucking call back. As far as I am conerned they have $50,000 that belongs to me, and I need some help. What i s wrong with the people in this world, so uncaring.