I think I may be PMSing a bit because yesterday I was so exhausted and frustrated and depressed.  I've been calling the DA's office for status and he is now sending all my calls straight to voicemail.  I've had to resort to calling from other phone lines to get him to answer and give me some status.  Yesterday he told me that the DA has started a new case and she won't get to mine for a few more weeks.  I'm so incredibly angry.  We are going on 5 months now.  I don't get that?  How can they let this guy be free for all this time knowing he is a pedophile.?  How do they sleep at night?  I realize my case isn't the only one and there are much worse but good GOD, between their vacations and sick days which seem to be every month and then holidays and then this or that, It's a wonder how they wipe their asses after using the bathroom.  As you can plainly see mother duck is full of salt instead of sugar today.  I'm so tired of this "looming" over us.  I want, no I need closure. I need closure now.  Not later, but right now.  Don't they get that?  I wonder if my husband has his hands on another little girl by now?  I wonder if his father who has moved in with him has had his hands on those young 18 year old boys yet?  Can I throw up now?  I'm not diong good again. 

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deleted_user

I understand your frustration on this matter.It is unbelievable that this it taking all this time and sending your calls to voicemail geez!!!! we are talking child sexual abuse here...this is overwhelming for you ...take care of yourself the best you can and try not to let this all get to you.....hugs
deleted_user
deleted_user

*hug*
i\'m sorry =[
sometimes my local news channel will do stories on things like this... when things don\'t play out the way they should... like when a school system kicks out a bunch of kids for they\'re religion. and no one wants to listen to them.
just a thought... =/
i dunno

he\'s prolly scared out of his mind you know... knowing your going to go after him. maybe he\'s on good behavior?
deleted_user
deleted_user

\"hug\". I am sorry. That is SO frustrating. As i have said before, my dad was a sergeant for our pd, so i know the kind of crap that goes on there. There are some good ones, but most of the time, they are self-serving creeps. Big surprise, but my dad\'s view on rape victims was that she was probably making it up b/c he turned her down. or ya know, she was asking for it. DISGUSTING. i hope they get on the ball & get this done already.