I've called the investigator and he says that the DA may be leaning towards pressing charges.  Finally!  She put in a call to the local police officer who initially interviewd my daughter and then my soon to be x husband and is waiting for him to call back.  After he answers whatever questions she has, we will be in court.  Sigh.  It's all so crazy.  I'm glad it's finally progressing.  The last three months have been insane.  My daughters therapist says that she is getting stronger and sadly that there is not even the slightest "shred" that this is false.  She said she doesn't have a shred of doubt.  I said, "I know", but then I almost threw up.  I know what he did, I am past denial.  I don't know why I wanted to vomit all night long.  At least now, we're moving in the right direction.  I hate him.