I spent time tonight making a list of my friends, their loved one(s), the date they passed, and details from their profile. I also listed my friends real name next to their screen name, if it was available from their journal or hug list. When I pray or think about my friends, I like to use their real name if known. Not that I am asking for names. There is a reason for screen names and privacy. It helps to have the list, as my friends list continues to grow. Over time, I only need to refer to the list for newer friends. I hear so many say to me that I am in their thoughts and prayers (not those on this forum, friends in my life). I know their intentions are pure, but I doubt if I am in their thoughts daily, and over time, maybe not at all. I want to honor those on this forum that are my friends. When I say you are in my thoughts and prayers, I don't want that to be hollow words. My list helps me remember all my friends, loved ones, dates, and details. I go over it every day. I don't always post on this forum, either because I'm not on my computer, or I am just not up to it. My list is always there to remind me just how special you are.