UPDATE

ok. here goes. sorry i havent been around much. been busy. kinda living between two houses gettin moved. back and forth between babysitter, working , and taking care of things. i got court tomarrow... or  today technically. it was suposed to be all said and done. i proposed a parenting plan, restricting visitation, or for supervised visits only. he has yet to ask to see her. i tried to serve him with the papers, an dhe refused. i ended up having to mail it to him, and now he says he didnt pick it up in time, so ask for a continuance. and he has a lawyer, that he DIDNT register that info with the court. i had no idea. and his lawyer wants to appoint a guardian at litem. im scared. im still going to court tomarrow. i dont know whats going on. i feel like im walking in the dark hoping i dont trip. i know so little about court matters, and cant afford a lawyer.  part 2\went to court today. it was continued of course, but got to see the other cases. and i feel i really need a lawyer. im scared. next week final date. got a couple appointments tomarrow so hopefully it works, maybe someone will help me.