An earlier post in break ups and divorce posed a question about what musician would you be and why.  After I thought about it, I decided I would be most like Kelly Clarkson.  I do love her music, but my reason was based on her new release, "Sober".  Sounds like the song was written for a past relationship.  In this case, the past relationship I would be referring to is the one I had with myself.  Much of my life has been lived with a blur around the edges.  Over the past two years with my therapy, I have been able to remove the blur and have much more clarity.  In that sense, I am 'sober'.  I wanted to post the lyrics and link to the song for anyone interested in reading.  Sooo powerful! http://www.artistdirect.com/nad/window/media/page/listen/0,,4166579,00.html?aff=azlyrics.comKELLY CLARKSON LYRICS"Sober"And I don't knowThis could break my heart or save meNothing's realUntil you let go completelySo here I go with all my thoughts I've been savingSo here I go with all my fears weighing on meThree months and I'm still soberPicked all my weeds but kept the flowersBut I know it's never really overAnd I don't knowI could crash and burn but maybeAt the end of this road I might catch a glimpse of meSo I won't worry about my timing, I want to get it rightNo comparing, second guessing, no not this timeThree months and I'm still breathingBeen a long road since those hands I left my tears in but I knowIt's never really over, noWake upThree months and I'm still standing hereThree months and I'm getting better yeahThree months and I still amThree months and it's still harder nowThree months I've been living here without you nowThree months yeah, three monthsThree months and I'm still breathingThree months and I still remember itThree months and I wake upThree months and I'm still soberPicked all my weeds but kept the flowers