Outside of my kids, I have alot of freedoms and I enjoy that.  At some point I have to stop being a Mom and be a woman.  Dating is fun but I have such a hard time finding the man that has the morals  I want and a passoinate side to go with it.  All I seem to find are 2 types of men..... christain men who have great morals but are a little on the prude side - afraid to even discuss where they stand in this area.  On the other hand, there is bad boy who has no morals at all.  I don't want either of this type.  My family has an opinion about everything, God love 'em.  They feel I should find a man that is suitable for my home life....  I agree to an extent.  But, if we are not compatible in other areas... were is that going to go?  I realize sexual compatibility is not the only important thing.  What is more difficult then finding someone to fit this bill, is getting my folks to respect that I need someone who has similar intrests in this area.  But they make me feel selfish.  :(  I know there has got to be healthy relationships out there that have exciting sex regularly that are good parents all at the same time!!  Next time they ask me why it didnot work out with Mr. Nice Guy I will no longer tell them Mr. Nice Guy was also boring... My prince will come, eventually I will find the man who is all these things and more.