I have decided that Adultry causes brain damage..
All weekend ex talked to me in these cold, nasty tones of voice..
Today he was as sweet as he could be... he was thanking me..appreciating me..I could have told him to kiss my ass and he would have said..thank you..
Made a decision today..going to agree to testify for gf's stbx...
I thought about it..prayed about it..I think it is the right thing to do..
She has people lined up willing to lie for her..
I won't lie..about anything..
A nasty 3 day trial..I think that whatever truth I can infuse will be helpful..to everyone..except the gf (of course)
This guy deserves a break..a great dad who only wants to be one..while she is still trying to get alimony..
I was a little worried about coming across as the "bitter, rejected wife"..
Before I got into health care..I investigated Child Abuse cases for 5 yrs. Because of that experience..court rooms don't intimidate me. Lawyers don't either.
Ultimately..I am in control of how I come across.
Decision made. On to the next one. Actually..don't really have any decisions to make right now so I will give my brain a much needed rest..
All weekend ex talked to me in these cold, nasty tones of voice..
Today he was as sweet as he could be... he was thanking me..appreciating me..I could have told him to kiss my ass and he would have said..thank you..
Made a decision today..going to agree to testify for gf's stbx...
I thought about it..prayed about it..I think it is the right thing to do..
She has people lined up willing to lie for her..
I won't lie..about anything..
A nasty 3 day trial..I think that whatever truth I can infuse will be helpful..to everyone..except the gf (of course)
This guy deserves a break..a great dad who only wants to be one..while she is still trying to get alimony..
I was a little worried about coming across as the "bitter, rejected wife"..
Before I got into health care..I investigated Child Abuse cases for 5 yrs. Because of that experience..court rooms don't intimidate me. Lawyers don't either.
Ultimately..I am in control of how I come across.
Decision made. On to the next one. Actually..don't really have any decisions to make right now so I will give my brain a much needed rest..
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Enjoy the rest. You certainly deserve it!
I think you made a good decision.
I\'d love to see you in that court-room (could film it post it on your video\'s:-))... it\'d might make a tv episode!
I agree with riverwalker - you deserve a good rest.
Good luck with it... let me know when you write that novel about that woman (you might make millions)!
ChrisB..I can tell you one thing..when I walk into that courtroom I will look FABULOUS!!!!!
Good decision Che. Wonder how many of her lined-up friends will back out before July?
good for you..............and hope all goes well :)
I\'m glad you decided to do this. Another family was also destroyed because of this--and if you can help out the person and children who suffered-go for it. Wish GF\'s stbx would ask me. I would in heartbeat. GF doesn\'t deserve anything good. If you cound everyone involved, she has destroyed 5 marriages in less than 5 years. her 1st one, her BF\'s marriage, then her 2nd marriage, her former supv\'s marriage, and my marriage. And my STBX says she is a beautiful person inside and out and that I could never compare--that is way above me and I am piece of shit. yep, he told me that yesterday, That I was piece of shit that didn\'t even deserve to be alive. he hates me that much.
I\'m very proud of you. Your right, it\'s not about revenge at this point, it\'s about letting the truth be told and help someone who was wronged from being hurt further.
You are one amazing person. It seems like your journals are 90% of you giving to someone or something. Glad I to have someone like you around to remind the rest of us that giving is truly better than receiving.
Wow - looking forward to the \"che2 courtroom journal entry\", I can tell you! The outcome will be interesting, but the truth will surely will out in the end. Bet the tin can GF will really be crushed when she hears you are going to testify....