Home with a sick kid yesterday. Mom's on stand-by today. I'll wake him up in a few minutes to see if he can go to school today. 4 weeks of school left here. I can't wait! Just the pressure off mornings will be a big relief.
Ex stopped by last night to give sick kid a hug. Thanked me for "letting him". I am hating him less. Thats a good thing.
Ex's gf told her stbx that she is going to start counseling..feels like she is "going crazy".. Not suprising. Her life is a mess. No kid, selling her house at a BIG loss to avoid forclosure, HUGE lawyer bills. I am sure that , by now, she has figured out that the man she left her loving and supportive spouse for is not going to be a big help to her. "Needy" is not his thing.
Another day..
Ex stopped by last night to give sick kid a hug. Thanked me for "letting him". I am hating him less. Thats a good thing.
Ex's gf told her stbx that she is going to start counseling..feels like she is "going crazy".. Not suprising. Her life is a mess. No kid, selling her house at a BIG loss to avoid forclosure, HUGE lawyer bills. I am sure that , by now, she has figured out that the man she left her loving and supportive spouse for is not going to be a big help to her. "Needy" is not his thing.
Another day..
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Karma, baby...At any rate, it\'s probably good in the long run that she gets some counseling. My stbx\'s gf has been seeing a counselor for years. Wonder what that means? When he told me all I could say was \"That\'s very New York of her...\"
Sending calm tummy vibes to Reece!
I hope the kidlet is doing better today. Hmmm....not that your getting any pleasure out of the gf situation, but why is there a smile on your face? Hope you have a good day today.
Holly..not sure that counseling will be a big help to her..requires some degree of HONESTY with yourself...
Exactly! My stbx was seeing a counselor....and she lied to her like she does to everybody about her own behavior! I realized that when stbx told me her counselor said to her \"You need to stand up for herself!!\"
She already does! And it\'s usually on me!!
Hope your boy is past the sickies.
Sorry about your sick kid.
I am happy you are feeling less hatred for your ex.
I don\'t think I hate mine but I\'m angry (I think the two are so closely intertwined)... but you are an inspiration that eventually I won\'t feel the way I do about mine.
Another day -- yes that is for sure - hope you are well.