Bought a book about being a single mom a couple of days ago. Been reading it. Pretty good stuff until I got to the part about dating. She is okay with a sexless life. Thinks that she will just wait until the kids are grown (10 yrs or so..she will be 50 something) before she gets serious about someone. Complications of blended families, blah,blah,blah
No more single mom books for me..at least not from the Christian Supply store!!
Think I could ask for my money back?..go in and say..listen I really needed some help with this whole single mom thing but this chick wants me to wait 12 YEARS ( Reece would be 18) to have sex. Just can't do it so I will be needing a refund!!...by the way do you have any single male associates???
No more single mom books for me..at least not from the Christian Supply store!!
Think I could ask for my money back?..go in and say..listen I really needed some help with this whole single mom thing but this chick wants me to wait 12 YEARS ( Reece would be 18) to have sex. Just can't do it so I will be needing a refund!!...by the way do you have any single male associates???
Replies
funny!!! by the way nice name reece
That is funny. 12 years, that\'s about how long I would have with my youngest. Let\'s say in 12 years if neither of us has had sex we will do it. :) Really, I\'m serious, why are you laughing?
Complications of blended families are a reason not to remarry, IMHO. Sex is an entirely different issue. That\'s half the appeal of alternate weekends! (Not that I know from experience, but a girl can dream, right?)
Holly, acccording to this lady..sex without marriage would be making a poor choice based on our \"emptiness\"..
BCw3..if you haven\'t had sex in 12 yrs..I will pay for your plane ticket!!
I\'d have to see what the chick looked like who wrote the book first to comment - maybe abstinance ain\'t an option for her! (Oh, mean, mean, mean...I\'m going to hell, I\'m going to hell...)
12 weeks is a long time, let alone 12 years. I agree with Holly - alternate weekends means every other weekend is Adult weekend. (The next question us guys want to know, Holly, is which weekends are yours? ;-)
Che, you should wear the sexiest outfit you got to go return the book - preferably when a young man is manning the register and tell him *why* you want your money back. Enjoy the blush he gives you.
Oh my goodness, I\'m having way too much fun with this topic...time to get out my pocket version of the New Testament and read up on Paul and those letters he enjoyed writing....
See you in church, ladies...
To have sex or not have sex, that is the question. I never thought I would say it, but I can take it or leave it. Probably because I\'m widowed and not divorced, cause in my head I\'m thinking, \" the good stuff doesn\'t belong to you.\" But geeze, I sure miss the intamacy. But I would like to see the bookstore guy terrorized!
Holly..took me all day to figure out IMHO..lol and I agree..if I thought that it would be a very complicated situation I would avoid it.. example..pt today trying to fix me up with her grandson..very cute but ugly divorce..crazy ex and 4 kids under 11..NO THANKS!!!!!!!!! Makes no sex for 12 years sound appealing!!
LOL at the images in my head right now...Che in her new bathing suit at the Christian bookstore...Blues, is that a New Testament in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?
Since I\'m in the market for a house, I need to figure out where the geographically centered position is for all of us so I can have the DS Party/911 Sex House. Kids will be with the ex\'s and the party never stops.
Now if this ends up being in the middle of Amish land, we might cause a stir. And if the ladies run around in the \"just signed my divorce papers\" outfits it might cause stirrings.
IMNSHO
more abbreviations!!! I have heard that there is a nudist colony not too far from here..there\'s a place to hang your hat!! ( wait..don\'t know if you are allowed to wear hats).. on second thought, bad idea..we wouldn\'t get to wear our \"we just got divorced AND lost 20 lbs on the divorce diet outfits\"..
It has been a rough 6 months without a woman, can\'t immagine waiting 9 years-thats crazy. Not into self torture. I lost around 20 lbs too seems to be a standard from anyone I talk to.
Just caught up on your journal - no way, nope, uh-uh, not going to go without sex for 6 years, six months and four days - My son is 11 and a half. That is about 6 years toooooooo long. Someone please tell me what all of the abbreviations are???? (and how I can get an invite to the party...)
Defintely get your money back - My stbx sister told me she divorced a 2nd time and made her life her daughter, now she regrets it. She doesn\'t have interest in finding a man (and she\'s young mid 50\'s). Hmmm help me with abbreviations too!