Well, decided that I am going to remain "divorced" for a while..talked to flower guy and we were friends first and we will still be friends..life might take me back to him but he has his own stuff going on right now and we will both benefit from giving things some time..being the VERY cool guy that he is he wants me to be "ready" whenever I make any kind of a committment and I am certainly not there yet.
Accomplished today the one thing that all women (over the age of 18 anyway)dread doing. BATHING SUIT SHOPPING!! Mom's idea. I didn't know if my ego was ready for that but she insisted. She told me if I bought one that was black or Navy she would kill me.I went into the dressing room armed with colorful bathing suits. Best bathing suit shopping experience of my life!!! Even when I was 18. Picked my favorite and and instead of picking myself apart I just stood there thinking that my ex is a DUMB ASS!!! I love that bathing suit! I love, even more, that I can feel that good about myself after everything that has happened in my life. I am glad that I have been able to, for the most part, see this as HIS failure. Not mine.
I think that I will answer the door in that bathing suit, at least one time, this summer when he comes to get the kids.
I am going to take my mom bathing suit shopping with me every year!!
Accomplished today the one thing that all women (over the age of 18 anyway)dread doing. BATHING SUIT SHOPPING!! Mom's idea. I didn't know if my ego was ready for that but she insisted. She told me if I bought one that was black or Navy she would kill me.I went into the dressing room armed with colorful bathing suits. Best bathing suit shopping experience of my life!!! Even when I was 18. Picked my favorite and and instead of picking myself apart I just stood there thinking that my ex is a DUMB ASS!!! I love that bathing suit! I love, even more, that I can feel that good about myself after everything that has happened in my life. I am glad that I have been able to, for the most part, see this as HIS failure. Not mine.
I think that I will answer the door in that bathing suit, at least one time, this summer when he comes to get the kids.
I am going to take my mom bathing suit shopping with me every year!!
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Flower guys is out? Good for me, I\'m back in the running, baby. Huh, there\'s another guy, crap sometimes you just can\'t win. LOL
Seriously, I know what you mean, I thought I was ready and well I just wasn\'t. It\'s difficult to move on sometimes. I think I want to be divorced for a while myself. So do we get to see a picture of you in a bathing suit? I think it would help with the cybersex thing. LOL
Have a great day and I hope he kicks himself in the ass when he see you.
Living well is the best revenge.
I\'m sure you look absolutely lovely. Defintely answer the door in the suit with a sign around your neck \"Stupid ass\" :-)