Totally underestimated the gravity of my house situation. Have I been blind?? Getting frustrated and so I am taking a break to journal. Called Flower guy for support and he told me that it would take him 1 month of weekends just to get my kitchen organized. Yes, I know that legal papers don't belong in the cabinet with the Christmas dishes but I have wanted them to be at hand. Have my divorce agreement memorized now so I guess I could move them to the file cabinet ( yes, i have one)!!
Going to get back to it. Wish Flower guy with all of his organizational skills could help out but I am keeping him in the closet for now. Kids not ready for that yet. I'll know when the time is right.
Going to get back to it. Wish Flower guy with all of his organizational skills could help out but I am keeping him in the closet for now. Kids not ready for that yet. I'll know when the time is right.
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yeah I\'m same way if i ever date (OMG whenever that will be), don\'t know when it would be right to bring them to the house.
I know my stbx is just waiting for me to do all this so he can then have his GF contact my kids. Early on in the damn relationship she wsy really emailing my kids (especially my daughter) pissed me off and I told her to stop.
Now she just says hi to them via the phone (her cell phone she bought for my stbx) to talk to her all day long oh and supposidly it has her damn picture on it.
If ever I get a hold of it I\'m flushing it.
Don\'t worry about organization -- and the house
In due time... you first --- everything else later!!!
My ex\'s life, as he knows it, would end if he goes outside of our agreement as far as gf is concerned. No contact while she is still married and then they cannot be alone with her..no overnights unless they get married. He is dumb but I don\'t think that he is dumb enough to mess with me on that one!! They got \" secret\" cell phone to talk to each other on, trying to convince the world that they are no longer together. Got caught. I call him on that phone sometimes ( got the number) just to piss him off!!
Take a break, relax. The house isn\'t going anywhere. You get that finished and there is ALWAYS something next.