My moms heart is beating normally again so all is well..
Had a great talk with J today and we realized that we are talking much less about what our ex's ( his not soon enough to be ex) are doing. We decided that if they do end up together it will be the best punishment for them both. It is a relief to not be worried anymore about what he is doing and who he is doing it with!!
Ex is back on the phone with me 3-4 times a day. For nothing. I have stopped answering if he does not have the kids so today he told me that he needed to talk about Reece and I called back. He wanted to know how he was doing this morning. Told me that he still likes talking to me. I am not going to anser or call back no matter what he says tommorrow!! He can leave me a message.
Yesterdays funk is mildly spilling over to today. Going to leave it here and have a happy day tommorrow!
Had a great talk with J today and we realized that we are talking much less about what our ex's ( his not soon enough to be ex) are doing. We decided that if they do end up together it will be the best punishment for them both. It is a relief to not be worried anymore about what he is doing and who he is doing it with!!
Ex is back on the phone with me 3-4 times a day. For nothing. I have stopped answering if he does not have the kids so today he told me that he needed to talk about Reece and I called back. He wanted to know how he was doing this morning. Told me that he still likes talking to me. I am not going to anser or call back no matter what he says tommorrow!! He can leave me a message.
Yesterdays funk is mildly spilling over to today. Going to leave it here and have a happy day tommorrow!
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nsetbx....I like that. All those phone calls--sounds worse than my sbtx\'s hugging (which has mercifully ceased!) Glad to hear your mom is doing well.
Yeah he likes talking to you... what about her?
Glad you and J are taking much less about the ex\'s (sign you both are healing and getting along pretty well) good for you.
Glad to hear your mom is doing ok.
she is working 2 jobs right now to pay for her house payments and child support..and they are \" technically\" not seeing each other because she thinks it will help her get custody back.. she is not really able to be there for him right now and SHE is missing J and all of the things that he used to do for her.. they both left \"givers\" for \"takers\".. maybe they are figuring that out!