have not had a dip of skoal since Tuesday morn, hooray for me a nd bless the poor souls that have to contend with my moods now. The finality of the divorce is growing closer and I still don't think it its the right thing to do
Hooray for you!!!! I\'m glad you are able to stick with your goal. As for the divorce, sometimes things happen that we don\'t agree with or particularly like. Unfortunately, we can\'t have control over everything that happens in our lives, but we can have control over how they affect us. When something is inevitable, the best we can hope for is to learn from it and use it to help us become a better person. I know all too well how painful it is to be in a situation that you really don\'t want to be. Time is the only thing that will help you accept this and be able to move on with your life. The mind is a powerful thing...learn to use it to your benifit. Try and \"re-program\" yourself to see the good that can come out of a bad situation. Try and see the positive side of it...even though it seems like there isn\'t one. You have grown from this milestone in your life and you will see it more clearly down the road. It is a bumpy road, yes, but it sure beats roaming through the weeds and briars where you\'re sure to be hurt from things you would never come across if you had just stayed on the road. You have people who care about you and are supporting you through this, no matter what!!! Hang in there....you are a survivor!!!!
I hope that you make it through the divorce. I know how you feel. We talked and I understand. Sometimes, you have to go through it to understand why it was meant to be. I hope that you will find peace with this.
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Hooray for you!!!! I\'m glad you are able to stick with your goal. As for the divorce, sometimes things happen that we don\'t agree with or particularly like. Unfortunately, we can\'t have control over everything that happens in our lives, but we can have control over how they affect us. When something is inevitable, the best we can hope for is to learn from it and use it to help us become a better person. I know all too well how painful it is to be in a situation that you really don\'t want to be. Time is the only thing that will help you accept this and be able to move on with your life. The mind is a powerful thing...learn to use it to your benifit. Try and \"re-program\" yourself to see the good that can come out of a bad situation. Try and see the positive side of it...even though it seems like there isn\'t one. You have grown from this milestone in your life and you will see it more clearly down the road. It is a bumpy road, yes, but it sure beats roaming through the weeds and briars where you\'re sure to be hurt from things you would never come across if you had just stayed on the road. You have people who care about you and are supporting you through this, no matter what!!! Hang in there....you are a survivor!!!!
Way to go on the goal.
I hope that you make it through the divorce. I know how you feel. We talked and I understand. Sometimes, you have to go through it to understand why it was meant to be. I hope that you will find peace with this.