Its been a good day 2day  ive talked with a lot of my friends that i have never met at DS and i am finding that maybe i am not the total ass my STBX claims, i do have a heart, i do know what an hanest and true feeling is,   she was here yesterday to pick up a cpl old time coffee perculators, she is staying with her M & D and they have no power due to ice storm.  I feel bad for her M&D  but then again she did have a warm place to stay if she had wanted  ok maybe i am a total ass