my wife was at the house today and as usual she took some more of her belongings,and as usual i walked the house just to see what was missing,  i found a theme pad under the mattress that was slightly out of place.  I don't know if it was right or wrong but i read some of the entries and i feel like dog stool,  i never realized how badly i had hurt her there is no wander that she is leaving a jerk like me