Have to take our son back to his grandparents where my wife is staying part-time and i always hate this cause i can see it in his eyes that he really doesn't want to go.  Guess its the only solution until courts decide.  I dont think he would mind so much except for hearing his father bashed intermittenly<<< is this a word lol i actually smiled when i looked at it.   strange what we find humorous in some of our darkest moments