wELL AFTER 14YRS OF MARRIAGE MY WALKAWAYWIFE HAS DECIDED SHE HAS HAD ENOUGH.Admittedly the last 2yrs have been very stressful. She had quit he job and i was trying to work 2+ jobs just to keep us afloat. February 14th
she first implied a divorce was on the way. I communicated my displeasure and somehow convinced her this was not the answer, Easter came and went and we were actually getting along quite a bit better. Memorial weekend i had to work and my wife and youngest son ventured south to visit relatives, or so I thought. Instead she left my son with relatives and met one of her many on line friends
Upon hearing this from my son I became very suspicious and made some accusations that she denied. Numerous arguments insued from this and all three sons became involved, to which she informed me that this was the last straw and she was getting a divorce. She managed to stay around long enough to get an insurance settlement check and through our 14yr anniversary. She then went to visit relatives and never really returned. Thats history, she has already started dating and I'm not sure but think she may even be staying with one of her new men. Divorce proceedings are in action and I've found out recently that her online affairs have been going on since mid April.. Yes I am pissed I think she has a prescription drug problem, a sickness if you will and unfortunately I sometimes think I might be sick to want her back so badly
she first implied a divorce was on the way. I communicated my displeasure and somehow convinced her this was not the answer, Easter came and went and we were actually getting along quite a bit better. Memorial weekend i had to work and my wife and youngest son ventured south to visit relatives, or so I thought. Instead she left my son with relatives and met one of her many on line friends Upon hearing this from my son I became very suspicious and made some accusations that she denied. Numerous arguments insued from this and all three sons became involved, to which she informed me that this was the last straw and she was getting a divorce. She managed to stay around long enough to get an insurance settlement check and through our 14yr anniversary. She then went to visit relatives and never really returned. Thats history, she has already started dating and I'm not sure but think she may even be staying with one of her new men. Divorce proceedings are in action and I've found out recently that her online affairs have been going on since mid April.. Yes I am pissed I think she has a prescription drug problem, a sickness if you will and unfortunately I sometimes think I might be sick to want her back so badly
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Just because one stops loving , doesn\'t follow that the other stops as well, just because they \"should\" or because that would be the \"sensible\" thing to do. Feelings aren\'t controllable, and love isn\'t (or at least shouldn\'t be) like a faucet easily turned on and off . You feel what you do for many reasons...reasons you know, not I. Much of it though could be simply that you have spent so many years with her and believed it was forever. You shared so much in the years together, she was a part of you, the air you breathed, the beat of your heart.Now a part of you has been ripped away and you had no control over that...you did not agree to your heart being torn out.In marriage we find a comfort place to rest. It is all we know. The end of a marriage means the comfort and security we once had known is ended and change and turmoil will follow. That\'s scary to face. Don\'t feel that you are wrong to feel as you do...you are not wrong. I am sending you a private hug, and letting you know...you are not alone, I, and others here, know your pain, and want to help.