We've ordered a memorial stone for Matt and tomorrow we are having Matt's ashes buried, we decided to place them with his Grand parents(husbands parents), he was very close to them as they only lived across the road from us , they both passed away in 2005 within 3 weeks of each other.They had a good life 92 and 88 ,my husband being the youngest of 7. My emotions are very up and down at the moment, one minute I'm fine the next wham!My neice gave birth to a Baby boy on 15th Jan it has been tinged with sadness she found out last week that the baby has Downs, she is only 28 and  its her first child so you can imagine she is absolutely devastated.