This is a quote from Stevp in a reply to Nats2104
 
'Yeah, at the end of the day you have MS. Also at the end of the day, you can really see who your pals are. Include them.  Do not alienate them.  No matter what they say or do, generally they are just trying to help. This is all new to them too. '

Stevp, whoever you are, you nailed it!