Nothing new on the stbx front.  I really dont care!  I dont have to talk to him for another whole two weeks!  Not that he wont call here for some reason or another.  Probably to tell the kids they can come over, without asking me.  I am looking forward to this weekend.  My sister who thinks Mom should be in a nursing home, I should be getting a better paying job and finding my own place is coming.   She is hell bent on NOT meeting M.   M is coming over, but not for dinner.  He really doesnt want to meet her, but I think he is coming for me.    I dont know why she is so against him.  She only knows what she was told by my OTHER sister, which she doesnt know anything either.   They are mad at him and me for some reason, and I dont know why.  I really dont care any more.  I just wonder what this weekend will bring.  She cannot boss me around any more.  I am here taking care of mom, not her.  Mom and I have it all worked out.  Yes, I will be with her until she dies, but that is ok.  She is my mom and I love her.  She can drive me NUTS, but moms do that.  Anyways...the stbx is history, and I feel really good.  I am not worried about going to court with him.  Dont know why, but all I want is child support, and full custody.  Thats it, nothing else.