Sent him a text this morning.  Told him we couldnt settle support out of court that it had to be court ordered.  Then I told him I knew why he called me irrational on the phone, and that was because she was standing there with him.  I ended the text with, "ur an idiot!"  He never replied.  So, off to court we go, because I dont trust him.  I know he thinks if he can get me not to go to court, he can get away with being late, or not paying at all.  He is so deep in his own shit, he doesnt know what to do.  Did I tell you he told me I could have the house?  I said, why would I want that house, I know its in foreclosure again!  He said, I gotta go, bye, and hung up.  He does not like to hear the truth!  What an ass!  I decided I am going to try and get in touch with the "friend" who loaned us that money.  I signed those papers, too and I want to know where I stand with this man.  I want to show him the seperation agreement that states I am not responsible for any finances borrowed.  I will do that tomorrow.Well, I just cant say enough how much of a jerk he really is.  He thinks he is so smart, and that I am stupid, or that I wont do what he wants because I am so nice.  And if I dont do it his way, he will point the finger at me for the rest of my life saying whatever goes wrong in his life from now on, was my fault.  I am prepared for that.  He really doesnt have a leg to stand on.  Anybody who know this man, REALLY KNOWS HIM, knows what type of person he is.  And they know me.  I AM nice!!  I have had people ask me when I tell them I left him, what took you so long? Off to work!